Look at me make this folder a conflict folder...

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I'm not going to name names (not like that'll keep things oblivious, anyway), but if a bunch of people think a certain thing you do is a bit annoying, it may very well be annoying, even if you do feel it is pretty normal/acceptable/etc.
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With a high-pitched cry, The Modan Kucho collapses in death.

[Tugor]

Hahaha things people do will ALWAYS annoy someone.

Who gives a shit?

For me in real life Im always trying to find the middle ground between being offensive yet still remaining the crude and rude person I am. I do have respect for others BUT Im not gonna go too much outta my way to be someone else just because they may or may not be offended by the way I am. On the other hand I dont go outta my way to be an asshole or jerk to people.

Tshar has no such qualms, he can be a total asshole or nice guy depending on his mood.

One thing I share with my character though is bluntness. It puts alot of people off all the time but Im used to it. It gets me in trouble and gets me lucky just as much hehe.
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[Arakaweii]

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Hah, I guess posting it in the OOC folder didn't really make it obvious enough that this isn't a game-based thing, but more a board-based thing.

But I do agree with Tshar. On one hand, who gives a shit. But, on the other, if all you do is generally piss people (as a whole) off, do you really think your posts that are actually valid will be noticed?
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With a high-pitched cry, The Modan Kucho collapses in death.

[Enverdi]

How wonderfully vague!
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[Kit]

One, he's talking about me. Two, yes they are noticed by someone if you keep bitching about them. ^.^ Besides, it's only a group of three people that bitch about them. And three, I don't really care! If I did, I'd be intimidated by this post.

You should have just put my name in there in the first place. Don't be a chicken, it's not becoming.

[HR-Trevor]

He probably hoped you'd get the point without him having to literally call you out.

But since the theme is "just say what you're thinking", I have to say that a) Kit has had some good and/or decent posts; but b) Kit also tends to have a rather arrogant and/or bitchy overtone that makes you expect it on all other posts he writes. As a result, point a gets largely overlooked.
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-- Trevor Rage / Rich Mondy

[Kit]

[winddancer]

Hahaha!!

I > Yaru + Will.



...I'm kinda high and wired right now because I came back from a surprise birthday bbq my friend was having and I really shouldn't be reading up on the boards and posting but Oh well....

Yeah, I have issues with Kit's player's posting style and insistence on posting disses on William when the thread has nothing to do with William in the first place.

It irritates me no end when I'm happily reading some commentary and out of the blue, Kit pops in to make some insult about William when Will hasn't posted at all in the first place.

William and Yaru can be overbearing, of course, but they often have a valid, if snarkily-put, point. It's more irritating when some thin-skinned person comes in on a high horse and doesn't let stuff go. Then it's a never-ending merry-go-round and I want to smack the crap out of them.

Yaru and William react TO Kit's posts. Kit, however, just starts little fires all over the place all on his own.

Other than that, I don't care as much about the multiple postings, though it IS annoying to me... I just skim past Kit's multiple posts on some thread and I'm fine. If it's valid, someone much more patient than I am will most likely quote Kit and I can read their posts instead.

As for in-game, yeah, I TRY not to bring my shit into the game. That and I'm not that petty a person. I think it's stupid to bring RL dislikes into the game.

In DR, I made mistakes...so I'm much more careful about separating myself from the game in HR when it comes to potential conflict. Not as discerning when it comes to the good stuff though. I'm silly that way.

Bell's player

[Brokyn]

Just to clarify, I have never brought the board world into the game. William has only met Kit once in-game and he was being an ass toward someone he was comm-repairing for. So William made a comment, and that was that.

On second thought, they've met twice. But the second was mostly in passing. So yeah.

--William
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[Kit]

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[Brokyn]

Way to blur the timeline. And because I have nothing better to do while I wait for Jeanne to hit, I'll go ahead and correct you. And for the sake of this post, do not get anal about my using 'you' when I'm talking about Kit. I assume that everybody -- including you -- understands what I'm trying to communicate, but I'm just trying to preempt you.

The very first time they met was in Cloud Court after I got someone to ask for a Tech to fix my comm. You were in the middle of spamming errands to get into Vale, but you were the only technician online at the time so I was fine with that. Even though I was first in the queue, you took someone else's repair first. Again, fine by me since you were the only technician online.

You (or Kit; you're both equally as bitchy/arrogant in my opinion) start arguing with the person over stupid stuff. In the end you managed to piss him off and, oh noes, you didn't get a tip. You were mad, but you had to spam more errands. I wait another ten minutes. You finally come back and do the repair. Both William and I are happy and you end up 500$ richer. Woot for you.

The second time they met was again due to a communication repair. Nelle pulled you over to the Beach and you repaired both of our communicators. William thanks Kit and you were on your way.

About a week later I see that you're online. I was sitting around just draining my experience pool so I decide to contact you via private communications. It was completely OOC. The intention was to try and fix whatever problem was between us, mainly because I'm at a point where I'd rather not be involved in a longstanding conflict. I tried very hard not to get angry or belittle you. However, you consistently refused to even attempt to hear my side of it. You had your mind made up that I was an asshole and there was nothing in the world that could change that.

I tried to respect that, but you kept saying "It doesn't matter, forget about it. You can't change it now" or other similar childish retorts. I can't remember exactly. So I admit to get a little angry and probably saying a few things that I shouldn't've. But from the beginning I told you that the whole purpsoe of the conversation was to try and put our hostilities in the past, something you simply would not have. You ended it abruptly with telling me that you had to go watch Star Trek with your boyfriend and immediately logged off.

So, I've come to the conclusion that you're nothing more than a Drama Queen. You've done very little more than try and bash me since you showed up. You were probably a little biased against me with how I treated your alter-ego Trink, but how was I supposed to know that you two were one-in-the-same when you started? I didn't, yet your personality remained marginally the same. So, yeah, I'm going to probably prod you a little bit in the beginning. Everybody goes through that, especially on message boards.

The best advice anyone will give you is to suck it up and try and gain respect from your peers (as the saying goes: respect isn't rewarded, it's earned). While I'm probably not the best person in the world to have respect from, I have been here for nearly two years now. I don't know everything about the game, but I like to think that I knew considerably more than you did when you/Trink showed up. That's more or less why I "bashed" (for lack of a better, softer term) when you started making posts that had been made once -- and, in some case, more than once -- in the past.

Ugh, and here I go with quasi-circular logic. I'll end.

--William
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[zamde]

Sometimes I need to recheck my address window, because I get myself convinced that I typo'd and somehow directed myself to the Official Argue Like Old Women Message Forum, and not HR's.